Okay, so we're almost a week into 2020 and I know, I know. We've made big plans, big resolutions...we're going to take 2020 by storm and make this our year.
But what changes have you made so far? What have you done to make 2020 your best year yet? Have you done anything yet?
Yes, I know...you're thinking to yourself, "Okay, Whitney...it's literally been a week. How much could I have possibly done in a week?"
I get it...I haven't made huge progress in actually DOING anything, but I have made plans. I've worked on my mindset because 2019 was hard. It was hard mentally and emotionally. And truthfully, I've needed a change in my mindset for awhile now.
I started playing the what if game again. And not in a good way. What if I am never able to stay pregnant? What if I can't carry a child to term? What if I have some weird mutation or something going on that makes it impossible?
Now, tell me, how are any of those thoughts good? How can they possibly help me in any way?
So instead, I've been working on what ifs in the positive manner. What if my next pregnancy is the one that results in our baby? What if I've been making all the best changes I can for me and my body? What if everything works out as it's supposed to? And by everything, I mean everything!
And Nick and I have made big plans for ourselves. We've laid them out in detail too. Not just saying them or just throwing things around. We're on the same page for where we're going and what we're going to do. And call me crazy, but that makes me feel so accomplished.
We know where we're going, what we want to achieve, and why we want these things. While we have plans, we don't necessarily know how we're going to get there. But that's okay. We have plans and we have faith. Sometimes you don't have to know the how...you just have to trust the process and keep moving forward.
So let's get back to the real question...what have you done to make this year your best year yet? What are you planning to do? How are you going to stick with the process?
So far, I've made plans. I know where we want to go. Now it's a matter of putting those plans in a place where I can see them every day. I want to be reminded of them daily. I want to take action every day to get there. Whether that action is small or large, I want to make sure I'm taking some sort of action.
I'm ready to start making my dreams come true. All of them.
How about you?
To do that, stop just talking about your plans. Write them out. Put them someplace you can see them. Take action to achieve them every day. It doesn't have to be a huge step, just take a step...every single day, take a step!
And remember, it doesn't have to happen all at once. Small chunks, small actions will get you where you want to go.
Make a plan. Write it out. Take action every day. You'll get where you're going!
Have a fabulous week, my friends! And a glorious 2020!
With love and wellness,